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7/27/11

Totally Jerk

Most cases in our society nowadays, men are not the one pushing himself to a girl anymore, rather, men are now in silent motion of life. Well, maybe I'm wrong, but in the society we have today, girls are really getting in the motion. They are now the one who make things in their option, unlike the latter days, wherein men are in the motion in anything.

Although, this is the case, maybe it is the output of being equality in sexual preferences. But still there are individuals who have not been granted such opportunity as we have now.. I may be out of the topic but this is only to introduce the things.

Jerk, this word is usually used by anyone to describe someone who is not sense-full enough to understand the things happening around them. Most individuals used this word are the girls, especially if they like to a guy very much that they are willing to do crazy things just to get the attention of the person they really attached to.

I usually observed that this word are usually used to described good looking individuals whom did not give to someone who liked him/her much. I myself, not to be boastful, I been told that I'm a jerk. Yes' definitely I'm a jerk, totally a jerk, even at home, school, work or even in anywhere. I can't easily understand the behaviors of the someone who already attached to me that easily without my knowing.

Besides, this things are only noticeable to other person rather to the one being focused to. Preferably, people like to play hide and seek in the situation of love that's why, when that someone who is longing for the attention of their most desired person, when they get totally damn of seeking thing just to get the attention of that person, they will eventually call him/her jerk, or more often, tell them they are jerk.

In my stand about this thing, I usually get caught by anyone else for being so jerk, especially my friends and to some people who know me. I'm not that good looking, I'm average looking guy but I cant easily understand some people way of calling my attention. Though I known some people who always call my attention, I sometimes give them what they want but not that often, since I try to give a space afterwards. I know it's wrong in other side, yet this is my way of putting a wall sometimes especially if I can't give that person's wants in me; or I don't like that person much.

I write this cause, I've been called coward which is worst than being a jerk, yet I can evaluate it that somehow in other sense being a jerk is coward. For now, jerk as I am, yet sooner, I'll not be anymore.

Being jerk is sometimes useful enough in most cases most specially to those who are already in a relationship, but in other way round, it is useful for those seeking their partner in life, but too much jerk is useless and it can make you countless and useless as well.

Hope you like this article.. I am pleased to read your suggestions and comments..

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7/18/11

THE UNDYING LOVE

It's quite a long time already, since the last time I have contacted the one I'm falling to.
I haven't heard news from her and even to her partner.

I like to know what happened to the love they've shared for a long time already,
But seems the time is not in my side.. though I did not make any move, I also to know
what are the happening in their living now, still I wonder somehow to know,
if they're happily together.

Many will definitely tell me that I am a fool,
Yes, I accept the fact that I'm a fool for loving her,
Even for a long span of years already, still I felt love for her.

Many things I already applied just to forget the feelings I felt for her;
Yet, the many attempts I tried, the many people I secretly hurt..
That's why I tried to be happily being single at this time..

In this case, I can be true to myself and be happy of what life is all about.
Though there are moments that will bring back the memories of the past,
I still continue the things I believe is right, so that I can eventually be ready.

Ready, in the case of loving someone whom I will be loving for all of my life,
Though, we can't erased the past that I loved someone so special that I failed to have her,
But, still I'm happy for the outcome cause I know I'd made a good decision though,
It brought too much pain in me for a long span of time..

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In the name of friendship....

Many times in our lives that we may fall in love;
Many times that we will be having bad modes;
Though it will happen to us mostly, occasionally,
Or typically,  it is just ordinary for us to feel that way.

We may end up happy by falling in-love to the right individual,
Or end up brokenhearted  still, we are the one making the decision.
Decision that despite of everything that may happen,
You will not regretting about..

In everyday living, trials may come and go, like the people we know.
They may seemed to last a long-time but not for a lifetime;
Though there were cases that the people we valued most,
Lived with us forevermore...

Many of the movies that had been showcased in our cinemas
Has this kind of trends, that love always end up a happy moments;
But it is required to sacrifice something valuable for us 
Before we get what our hearts truly wanted to have.


In some cases, to make us happy even if not for ourself;
We're willing to give our special someone to our dear friend,
Specially if we recognized the value of friendship preciously.
In the name of friendship, Things may changed.
It may end up happily or tragically on both sides; friendship and love.

I know, this is not clearly explained; but for those who encountered
Such experiences, they know what I'm talking about..

Not allccept, can make us sad,
There are things that we surrendered that makes everyone happy,

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7/12/11

Self Evaluation

There are times when we felt that all we had in life are all pleasure and happiness..
There are moments that even we had all what we like, still we are not happy about it, we need something that we don't know what it is.. In fact, we keep ourselves busy on other things that we thought that can make as happy, but we're definitely wrong about it.

Well, before we become so obsessed with our wants, let's have an evaluation to ourselves if what we had achieved and what we need to achieve. In this way, we can identify what will be the things that can make us happy and contented..

Achieving things without a plan can sometimes brought us into a situation wherein we crave for more achievements that had been cause from sudden happiness we had felt. So when we evaluate ourselves, we can identify more about ourselves; what makes us happy and what is not achievable..